Classes and Additional Resources Dealing with Infliction of Injury

California is one of the strictest states in the nation when it comes to punishing domestic abuse offenders. The consequences of an infliction of injury conviction are severe and life-changing. A first-time offender with no aggravating circumstances can face up to four years in prison and up to $6,000 in fines, and an individual with prior convictionsor with aggravating circumstances can face up to nine years in prison and up to $10,000 in fines.

In an effort to try to put an end to the violence, there are many programs throughout the state that offer services to educate both the victims and abusers involved in these intense, volatile relationships. The services are provided for people of all income levels, so it is always possible to find programs that are affordable. If interested in pursuing self-help or if looking to help another, a caring criminal defense lawyer can be a great place to start, as he or she will have these types of resources and referrals right at his or her fingertips.

Counseling for those affected by domestic violence is available to not only help the abuser deal with anger management and violence issues but exists to help empower victims of intimate partner abuse as well. With respect to abusers, the goal of counseling is to help them learn to walk away from potentially explosive situations without resorting to violence. Services for the victim frequently include private or group therapy, vocational training, and lessons on how a victim can safely flee from a violent partner. The goal of this therapy is to empower the victim to leave an abusive relationship behind in order to secure his or her safety.

For the abuser, there are batterer’s classes that are structured courses designed to stop the use of physical, psychological, or sexual abuse to gain or maintain control over a partner. California has more than 450 court-approved programs and many others for those seeking help before the courts are forced to intervene. Domestic violence statistics reveal that drugs and/or alcohol often accompnay violent incidents and there are Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Narcotics Anonymous (NA) meetings which are free of charge and are held throughout the state for the abuser who needs this type of help as well. Long-term, live-in facilities also exist for the individual who requires more intense drug or alcohol counseling.

For the victim, there are emergency shelters that are set up throughout the state that will allow a victim and his or her children to take temporary residence while keeping their identity confidential. The locations of these shelters are kept a secret from everyone except those professionals who would need to be “in the know” to help further protect the residents. There are also many government financial assistance programs available to help the victim and his or her family get back on their feet.

Individuals affected by infliction of injury, also commonly called “spousal abuse” or “spousal battery,” can take comfort in knowing that help is available. All of the above services are provided in numerous languages and to people of every economic, ethnic and religious background.

Services exist that are geared towards both victims and abusers who are either men or women and who are heterosexual or homosexual. SAFE (Stop Abuse For Everyone) is an excellent resource, as it breaks down many categories of victims and abusers and then lists several of the state’s programs under each. In addition, the compassionate and trustworthy attorneys at The Kavinoky Law Firm can help refer individuals to a variety of services that will meet their needs. For questions about infliction of injury, or about classes and resources available to those affected by it, please click here for a free consultation.

Witness intimidation is a California domestic violence charge involving alleged threats to an intimate partner. Any type of couple can be considered an intimate partnership – the individuals can be straight or gay and may be married, divorced, living together, have children in common, or have dated at any time.

California domestic abuse law defines witness intimidation as any attempt to prevent an intimate partner from making a police report, answering the questions of law enforcement, or testifying in a court proceeding. The offense can be charged as a misdemeanor punishable by up to one year in jail. However, if the defendant is accused of using or threatening force, if the intimidation is part of a conspiracy, or if the intimidation is for financial gain, he or she will be charged with a felony punishable by two to four years in prison. The success or failure of the offender’s attempt is irrelevant to this charge, meaning that it doesn’t matter whether the intimate partner was actually intimidated.

When a suspect is arrested for intimidating a witness as a misdemeanor, bail is set according to the bail schedule but can be raised or lowered based on an application that can be submitted by the defendant, by anyone on behalf of the defendant or by the arresting officer. However, if the suspect is arrested on a felony witness intimidation charge, the law forbids the defendant from being released on bail in an amount that is either higher or lower than that contained in the bail schedule or on his or her own recognizance (commonly called OR) without first having a court hearing.

If there is a bail hearing, the judge will consider the defendant’s prior criminal history, his or her flight risk, and the facts of the pending case to determine whether to raise or lower the set bail amount or to release the defendant OR. When the judge makes decisions about bail, he or she presumes that the accused is guilty and makes a decision keeping that in mind, which is why it is so important to appear with a criminal defense lawyer who has experience with every phase of an intimate partner abuse case.

If the defendant is denied an OR release – which is very common in domestic abuse cases – and must post bail, release from jail can be obtained through one of two methods: Posting cash bail or posting a bail bond. To be released on cash bail, the defendant must post the full amount of bail in certified funds or cash with either the arresting agency or with the Clerk of the Court. If the accused attends every court appearance, the cash will be returned within 60-90 days after the case is resolved. However, if the defendant fails to appear, the cash bond is forfeited to the court.

A bail bond is a contract with a bail agent where the agent agrees to post a bond for the full bail amount. The bondsman will generally charge ten percent of the bond amount as his fee. The bondsman may also require collateral (usually a car, house or something else of considerable value) to secure the bond. This means that if the defendant does not repay the bond, the bondman has the legal right to keep or sell the defendant’s collateral. Once the case is over, the bond is exonerated, and the collateral is then released.

A witness intimidation conviction carries severe penalties. The defendant’s reputation, career, family and freedom are jeopardized the minute the arrest is made, which is why it’s critical to contact a skilled California defense attorney immediately after being arrested. In order to secure the best representation from a firm who has successfully defended countless individuals charged with domestic abuse crimes, contact the unparalleled attorneys at The Kavinoky Law Firm for a free consultation.

Classes and Resources for Sexual Battery Victims and Abusers

Under California law, sexual battery is a domestic violence offense that can apply to any form of intimate partners – heterosexual or homosexual, who are married, divorced, living together, have children together, or who are currently or formerly dating. Any person who touches an intimate partner against that person’s will for sexual arousal, sexual gratification or sexual abuse can be charged with sexual battery.

Any physical contact – however slight – can be considered touching, whether it occurs directly, through the clothing of the accused, or through the clothing of the accuser. This offense can be charged even against a partner in an ongoing relationship. Depending on the circumstances, the crime can be charged as a misdemeanor or a felony with penalties of up to one-year in jail or up to four years in prison and fines of up to $10,000.

California has taken a stand on sexual abuse by becoming one of the strictest states when it comes to punishing its offenders. The consequences of a sexual battery conviction are severe and possibly even life altering, as one’s reputation, family, career and freedom are all in jeopardy.

In an effort to try to put an end to domestic sexual abuse, there are many programs throughout the state that offer services to educate both the victims and abusers involved in these intense, volatile relationships. The services are provided in numerous languages to people of every economic, ethnic and religious background and target both heterosexual and homosexual individuals. If interested in pursuing self-help or if looking to help another, a caring criminal defense lawyer can be a great place to start, as he or she will have these types of resources and referrals right at his or her fingertips.

Counseling for those affected by sexual battery and other forms of domestic abuse is available to not only help the abuser deal with anger management and violence issues but exists to help empower victims of intimate partner abuse as well. With respect to abusers, the goal of counseling is to help them learn to walk away from potentially explosive situations without resorting to violence. Services for the victim frequently include private or group therapy, vocational training, and lessons on how a victim can safely flee from a violent partner.

For the abuser, there are batterer’s classes that are structured courses designed to stop the use of physical, psychological or sexual abuse to gain or maintain control over a partner. Domestic violence statistics reveal that drugs and/or alcohol often accompnay violent incidents, and there are free Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Narcotics Anonymous (NA) meetings held throughout the state for the abuser who needs this type of help as well. Long-term, live-in facilities are also available if more intense treatment is necessary.

For the victim, there are emergency shelters throughout the state that allow victims and their children to temporarily reside, keeping their identity confidential. These shelters’ locations are kept a secret from the public to help further protect the residents. There are also many government financial assistance programs available to help the victim and his or her family get back on their feet.

Individuals affected by sexual battery can take comfort in knowing that help is available. SAFE (Stop Abuse For Everyone) is a fabulous resource, as it breaks down many categories of victims and abusers and then lists several of the state’s programs under each. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is another great resource both online or by telephone (1-800-799-SAFE). In addition, the compassionate and trusted attorneys at the Kavinoky Law Firm can help refer individuals to a variety of services that will meet their needs. A skilled attorney from the Kavinoky Law Firm can answer any questions about sexual battery, or about classes and resources available to those affected by it during a free consultation.

Stalking as a California Domestic Violence Crime

Stalking, when committed against one’s intimate partner, will be prosecuted as a domestic violence crime in California. California defines intimate partners as married, divorced, dating, formerly dated, having children together or living together, regardless of whether they are heterosexual or same-sex partnerships. When an individual willfully, maliciously and repeatedly follows his or her intimate partner and makes a threat, intending to place that partner in fear, he or she faces up to one year in jail and a $1,000 fine, depending upon whether it is charged as a misdemeanor or a felony. The prison time would be at least two years and as many as four years if the accused commits this crime while named in a protective order or may be raised to a maximum of five years if he or she has a prior conviction for stalking or prior convictions for infliction of injury, violation of a protective order or for making criminal threats.

California law prohibits an individual who has been charged with stalking to be released from custody without first having a bail hearing. At a bail hearing, a judge considers the defendant’s flight risk, his or her prior criminal history, the increased risk to the victim of the crime and the facts of the pending case to determine whether to release the defendant on his or her own recognizance (commonly called OR) or to increase or reduce the scheduled bail amount. The defendant is more or less presumed guilty by the judge during this phase of the proceedings, which is why it is imperative that the defendant hires an experienced criminal defense lawyer from The Kavinoky Law Firm to help persuade the court that either reducing bail or releasing the defendant O.R. will best serve justice.

In an intimate partner abuse case such as stalking, a judge will typically deny an OR release, thereby requiring the defendant to post bail in order to get released from custody. He or she can either post cash bail or post a bail bond. Posting cash bail is rare, because few people have enough money to pay the full amount of their set bail. When cash bail is posted, it will be returned to the defendant within 60-90 days after the case is resolved if the defendant attended every single court appearance. If, at any time, the accused failed to appear for court, the cash bond may be forfeited to the court.

A bail bond is more typically used to post bail than cash bail. When obtaining a bail bond, the defendant enters into a contract with a bail agent. In exchange for a fee (usually 10% of the bail amount), the bail agent (or bondsman) agrees to post the full bail amount for the defendant. The agent will usually require additional “collateral” which is an item of great value, usually a house or a car, to further secure the bond. If the defendant makes all of his court appearances, at the conclusion of the case, the bond will be exonerated and the collateral will be released. If the defendant flees, his or her collateral will become the property of the agent.

Because the consequences of a stalking conviction are so serious, it is vital that the accused hires a skilled defense attorney as soon after his or her arrest as possible so that the attorney can fight for the defendant throughout the entire criminal court process. The rules pertaining to a Domestic Violence stalking charge are specific and technical, which is why it is so important to retain representation that is experienced in this area of the law. The unparalleled attorneys at The Kavinoky Law Firm have successfully defended countless individuals accused of stalking. To secure the best representation, click here for a free consultation.

Recanting victims and the special issues that they raise in a California domestic violence stalking case

In California, an individual who commits a crime against his or her intimate partner will face the charge as a domestic violence crime. Intimate partners are heterosexual or homosexual partners and include persons who are married, divorced, dating, formerly dating, living together and persons who have children together. If an individual maliciously follows or harasses and threatens his or her intimate partner, he or she will likely be charged with stalking as a domestic abuse crime.

Stalking necessarily involves a victim who was the target of the stalking. When that victim originally calls the police or files a police report against the intimate partner who has been stalking him or her and then later changes or takes back his or her original allegations, he or she becomes what is known as a “recanting victim.” A recanting victim poses special challenges for a criminal defense lawyer because that victim can ultimately be devastating to the defense, even if he or she is genuinely trying to help. This is because a prosecutor is allowed a great deal of leeway when a victim recants and will usually be permitted to introduce evidence that may otherwise have been inadmissible if the victim had simply maintained his or her original allegations.

Recanting victims are common in intimate partner abuse trials because of the intense, volatile relationship that is defined by domestic violence. Very often, a victim may falsely accuse his or her intimate partner of stalking out of anger, jealousy or revenge or to simply gain control over his or her partner. Other times, a victim may have been threatened by his or her intimate partner into recanting his or her accusation, which is a crime in and of itself, known as witness intimidation. Sometimes a victim may get back together with his or her intimate partner after criminal charges were filed and then may feel badly that he or she accused his or her intimate partner of a crime. In an effort to help his or her partner, that victim will recant his or her original allegation, thinking that if he or she either refuses to cooperate with the police or prosecuting agency, that the charges will have to be dropped. This is simply not the case, as prosecutors actually anticipate that D.V. victims will recant and know how to proceed under this type of situation.

Recanting victims in an intimate partner violence stalking trial can be a gift to the prosecutor. Along with a host of other privileges, it allows the prosecutor to tell the jury what the victim originally told the police, either through the investigating officer or by playing a recording of the original 911 call placed by that victim. A recanting victim will also usually mean that the prosecutor will hire an expert witness to testify that the victim has recanted because of the abuse that he or she might receive from his or her intimate partner if he or she didn’t recant. It further encourages the expert to testify about the “cycle of abuse” and that the individual likely suffers from “battered person’s syndrome” which is the reason why he or she has changed his or her story.

If a stalking victim personally chooses to take back or deny his or her original allegations, for any reason, on his or her own free will, it is best for both partners to consult with an attorney who is experienced in California’s domestic violence laws and on the consequences that a recanting victim invites. The skilled attorneys at the Kavinoky Law Firm will take the time to sit down with both partners in an effort to devise the best defense strategy available. They will help both parties understand how a recanting victim may actually hurt the defendant and will advise that person on how to proceed in an effort to right a wrong. Click here for a free consultation and for the best representation.

Types of Abuse that Can Lead to Domestic Violence Charges in California

In California, domestic violence laws apply to all crimes that are committed against one’s intimate partner (that is, a spouse, former spouse, significant other, former significant other, the person with whom one lives or lived and the person with whom one has children), one’s child, parent or anyone else related by blood or marriage within the second degree. Domestic abuse is a general phrase that encompasses many different types of abuse, some that are easy to identify and prove and others that are not.

Physical abuse is perhaps the most commonly identified and most reported type of domestic abuse and can range from restraint to murder. Physical abuse occurs when an individual intentionally uses force upon another, attempting to cause pain, harm and/or injury. Types of physical abuse include, but are not limited to, sexual abuse, slapping, hitting, punching, pushing, shaking, restraining, biting, choking and assault with a weapon.

Emotional abuse, also known as verbal abuse or psychological abuse is thought to be widely underreported because of the fact that it is difficult to prove and is usually committed in conjunction with other forms of abuse. Although it would seem that physical abuse would be more painful, the effects of emotional abuse are considered to be far more devastating. Emotional abuse occurs when an individual threatens or intimidates another in an effort to gain control over that person, shames, mocks or criticizes another person (regardless of whether others are around at the time), isolates another person, destroys pets or property in front of another person in an effort to instill fear in that individual and when an offender blames the victim for the offender’s violent actions.

Financial abuse, or economic dependence, occurs when an individual either prevents access to or withholds money, checks or credit cards from another, steals from another (for example, a child who steals from a parent or a partner who steals from his or her partner or exploits that partner for his or her own financial gain) or withholds necessities from another such as food, shelter, medicine or clothes. Financial abuse often goes hand-in-hand with emotional abuse and can cause a victim to feel absolutely hopeless.

The effects of domestic violence are serious and can last forever. Victims of D.V. often exhibit depression, anxiety or fear, low self-esteem, anger, withdrawal, a difficulty in forming relationships with others, eating disorders and other health problems and may develop drug, alcohol and/or other destructive, addictive behaviors. The effects on children (whether they are directly abused or witness the abuse that takes place in their home) are even more extreme. In addition to the above behaviors, children will often act out by committing crimes and acting violent towards others, may attempt suicide and are more likely to grow up to be adult abusers.

The outstanding attorneys at The Kavinoky Law Firm specialize in California crimes of domestic violence and can help defend against a charge of intimate partner abuse, child abuse or elder abuse. These trustworthy attorneys can also provide referrals for counseling and other types of services for abusers who want help and for the victims that they have hurt. Because of the devastating effects that abuse can have on one’s family, an offender faces severe consequences if convicted of a Domestic Violence-related crime. One’s family and freedom are too important to trust to an inexperienced attorney. Contact the attorneys at The Kavinoky Law Firm today for a free consultation.

Civil Penalties Associated with a California Domestic Violence Criminal Threats Accusation

Criminal threats is a California domestic violence charge when the recipient of the threat is the intimate partner of the individual who issued the threat. Persons are intimate partners (regardless of whether they are involved in heterosexual or homosexual relationships) when they are dating, formerly dated, married, divorced, living together or have children together.

A domestic abuse charge based on criminal threats may be filed when an individual threatens to commit a crime against his or her intimate partner that, if committed, would result in death or serious bodily injury to the partner. It is irrelevant that the individual didn’t actually intend to follow-through with the crime, as the only relevant fact is that the partner, upon receipt of the threat, was reasonably in fear for his or her safety.

Criminal threats, in a criminal court, is a charge that would be filed by a prosecuting agency, not by the “victim” or recipient of the threat, as many incorrectly believe. In civil court, it would be the “victim” or intimate partner that was threatened (who becomes known as the plaintiff) that would sue the individual who made the threat for this “tort,” “wrong” or “cause of action.” Criminally, a defendant must be found guilty “beyond a reasonable doubt” (which is the highest burden of proof that exists) before he or she can be convicted. Civilly, the judge or jury must only be convinced that there is a “preponderance of the evidence” (which means greater than a 50% chance) that the defendant threatened his or her intimate partner.

In a criminal court, a defendant who is convicted of this charge faces up to one year in county jail or prison, depending on whether the crime was charged as a misdemeanor or a felony, and several additional penalties as well. In a civil court, an individual who is found liable for this tort may face substantial fines but cannot be sentenced to imprisonment. The individual may be required to pay up to three different types of monetary damages to his or her intimate partner for making criminal threats against that intimate partner. When an exact dollar amount can’t be calculated for the wrong caused to the intimate partner, he or she will be awarded “general” damages. Damages for “pain and suffering” are typically awarded under this category. If the recipient of the threat has out-of-pocket expenses (such as hospital bills, attorney’s fees or the cost to replace or repair any damaged personal property) that were incurred as a result of the threat, he or she would be entitled to “special” damages. The third type of damages that the intimate partner may be awarded are “punitive” damages, which are imposed to punish willful or malicious misconduct and are awarded over and above special and general damages.

A Civil Protective Order will be issued in addition to monetary damages if it is proven that the plaintiff is reasonably in danger. A Civil Protective Order is like a Criminal Protective Order in that it will likely prohibit the offender from coming within a certain distance of the plaintiff to prevent further threats or abuse. A much more restrictive order may be imposed if justified by the facts presented at trial. A civil protective order lasts for a period of three years.

Making criminal threats against an intimate partner has many serious consequences, both civil and criminal. With that in mind, it is critical that an individual accused of this crime contacts a criminal defense lawyer who can defend against the charge. The attorneys at The Kavinoky Law Firm have experience dealing with California’s intimate partner abuse crimes and have successfully defended countless criminal threats cases. They are equipped to aggressively tackle any criminal case and can provide referrals for civil defense attorneys where appropriate. An experienced defense lawyer can answer questions about a California domestic violence case during a free consultation.

Mandatory Probation Requirements Imposed in a California Domestic Violence Criminal Threats Sentence

“Criminal threats” qualifies as a California domestic violence crime when the defendant threatens his or her intimate partner. Intimate partners are dating, were formerly dating, living together, have children together, married or divorced. They can be heterosexual couples or same-sex partnerships.

Criminal threats can be charged against a person who threatens to commit a crime against his or her intimate partner that will result in serious bodily harm or death to that partner if committed. If the partner reasonably feared for his or her safety as a result of the threat, the fact that the accused didn’t actually intend to carry out the threat is irrelevant. In addition, the form of the threat doesn’t matter, so long as the partner receives it and feels threatened.

If convicted for making criminal threats, the defendant faces up to one year in the county jail or state prison, depending on whether the charge was sentenced as a misdemeanor or a felony. In addition, if the offender is granted probation, he or she will face further penalties that must be imposed on any person placed on probation following a conviction for a California intimate partner abuse crime.

Probation for an individual convicted of making a criminal threat against his or her intimate partner will last for at least three years. Probation will be formal if the charge was sentenced as a felony or informal if it was sentenced as a misdemeanor. During that time, the convicted individual is responsible to follow through with certain specified conditions and must complete all requirements without further violating any laws.

Following his or her conviction for criminal threats and once placed on probation, the defendant must get “booked” within one week if he or she wasn’t booked prior to conviction. This means that the defendant must be fingerprinted, photographed and entered into a criminal database. A criminal protective order will also be immediately issued against the offender to prevent additional threats or abusive behavior towards his or her intimate partner. Depending on the facts that surrounded the charged incident, a judge may impose a residence exclusion and/or stay-away conditions.

D.V. convictions require that the defendant pay certain fines when convicted and placed on probation. The offender will be required to pay a minimum of $200 to various domestic abuse funds throughout the state. His or her ability to pay will be taken into consideration by the court when it imposes this condition.

A domestic violence criminal threats probationer must also attend a batterer’s class. The offender must attend at least 52 two-hour weekly classes and, depending on the circumstances that surrounded the charge and the defendant’s personal history, a judge may also order the defendant to attend a drug and/or alcohol program. A specified number of hours of community service will also be required.

Before a judge will modify, terminate or revoke probation, he or she will consider the defendant’s ability to comply with its terms and his or her willingness and diligence in doing so. If the court doesn’t think that the defendant is appropriately progressing, it may revoke probation, which means that the maximum one-year jail or prison sentence will likely be imposed. A skilled criminal defense lawyer will help keep these requirements to a minimum and will argue against modification or revocation if it is in the best interests of his or her client.

The attorneys at The Kavinoky Law Firm sympathize with their clients and treat each with compassion and respect. They will do their best to guide their clients through the probation process with ease, helping to ensure that each client completes his or her requirements as conveniently as possible. The experienced defense lawyers can answer questions about the penalties that result from a domestic abuse criminal threats conviction during a free consultation.

Classes and Resources for People Involved in Abusive Relationships

California courts typically issue protective orders in domestic violence cases involving intimate partners that bar an offender from committing specific acts of abuse, re-entering his or her own home, or exhibiting certain behaviors. Intimate partners may be married, divorced, living together, have children in common, dating or formerly dated and may be straight or gay.

Anyone who fails to comply with the court’s direction can be charged with violation of a protective order. Any intentional and knowing violation of a protective order by an individual against his or her intimate partner is a misdemeanor punishable by a maximum of one year in jail and a $1,000 fine. If the violation results in physical injury to the accuser, the offender will serve mandatory jail time of at least 30 days, possibly up to one year, and the fine may rise to $2,000. California courts can even punish an offender for violating an order in California that was issued in another state.

California has taken a stand on intimate partner abuse by becoming one of the strictest states when it comes to punishing its offenders. The consequences that a defendant faces for violating a protective order that was issued to protect his or her intimate partner are severe because the state hopes to deter the offender from engaging in further illegal conduct.

In an effort to try to put an end to domestic abuse, there are many programs throughout the state that offer services to educate both the victims and abusers involved in these intense, volatile relationships. The services are provided in numerous languages to people of every economic, ethnic and religious background and target both heterosexual and homosexual individuals. If interested in pursuing self-help or if looking to help another, a caring criminal defense lawyer is a great place to start, as he or she will have these types of resources and referrals right at his or her fingertips.

Counseling for those affected by domestic violence is available to not only help the abuser deal with anger management and violence issues, but exists to help empower victims of intimate partner abuse as well. With respect to abusers, the goal of counseling is to help them learn to walk away from potentially explosive situations without resorting to violence. Services for the victim frequently include private or group therapy, vocational training and lessons on how a victim can safely flee from a violent partner.

For the abuser, there are batterer’s classes that are structured courses designed to stop the use of physical, psychological or sexual abuse to gain or maintain control over a partner. Domestic violence statistics reveal that drugs and/or alcohol often accompnay violent incidents, and there are free Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Narcotics Anonymous (NA) meetings held throughout the state for the individual who needs this type of help as well. Long-term, live-in facilities are also available if more intense treatment is necessary.

For the victim, there are emergency shelters throughout the state that allow victims and their children to temporarily reside, keeping their identity confidential. The locations of these shelters are kept a secret from the public to further protect the residents. There are also many government financial assistance programs available to help the victim and his or her family get back on their feet and develop their independence.

Individuals affected by domestic abuse can take comfort in knowing that help is available. “SAFE” (Stop Abuse For Everyone) is a fabulous resource, as it breaks down many categories of victims and offenders and then lists several of the state’s programs under each category. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is another great resource both online and via telephone (1-800-799-SAFE). In addition, the compassionate, discreet and trustworthy attorneys at The Kavinoky Law Firm can help refer individuals to a variety of services that will meet their needs.

Domestic violence, in California, is defined as abuse that takes place against a spouse, former spouse, the person with whom one lives or lived, one’s significant other or former significant other, the person with whom one has children, one’s child or against anyone else who is related by blood or marriage within the second degree. The definition pertaining to domestic abuse seems to include almost everyone. Specifically looking at the last category, the definition seems to include a child’s abuse toward his or her parent. Unfortunately, while this type of abuse definitely exists, it receives very little attention and therefore leaves parents in this situation wondering if there is anything they can do about this problem or anyone they can turn to for legal advice.

The caring attorneys at the Kavinoky Law Firm specialize in California’s D.V. crimes and in all of the different types of cases that may be prosecuted under this category of offenses. Parents who find themselves facing this family violence problem can take comfort in knowing that help is available and that the supportive, compassionate attorneys at the Kavinoky Firm can lead a parent victim in the right direction.

Parents are often the silent victims of domestic violence. Spousal or intimate partner abuse is widely recognized, as is any form of child abuse. Parent abuse, however, often flies under the radar, even though it is as real and destructive as the other two categories of abuse. When a child, under the age of 18, engages in behavior that is intentionally harmful to his or her parent and is used as a way to control that parent, he or she is abusing that parent. The abuse, much like intimate partner abuse or child abuse, can be physical or emotional and takes place in families without respect to race, religion, education or financial status.

The parent-child relationship is not an equal relationship. It is a parent’s job to protect the child, to provide for the child and to discipline the child. Children require protection and direction from their parents. When this dynamic either flips or becomes nonexistent, it invites the potential for abuse. It should be noted that not all defiant or resistant behavior is abusive, as all children – and particularly teenagers – go through phases to show their independence. However, when the behavior is clearly intended to exert control over a parent either through violence, threats or manipulation, that parent is being abused and must seek help.

Physical parent abuse can take the form of hitting, punching, pushing, damaging the home (for example, punching a hole in the wall), or throwing things. This list is by no means complete, it is just a small example of the types of ways that a child may physically abuse his or her parent. Depending on the circumstances of the situation, this type of behavior may be considered criminal and could result in prosecution.

Emotional abuse, including verbal abuse, is used to terrorize or control a parent. It may include, but is not limited to, threats (either physical threats of violence or manipulative threats, such as threatening to commit suicide, run away, or to otherwise hurt him or herself with no intention of really doing so), degradation, lying, running away, yelling and swearing at the parent.

Financial abuse takes place when a child steals from his or her parents, sells his or her parent’s belongings or incurs debts that the parents are legally responsible for paying.

Parents who are being abused by their children can contact their local juvenile detention agency to see if they have programs that may be able to punish and rehabilitate their children. Resources are also available in the form of counseling and classes to help curb abusive behavior. Speaking with a criminal lawyer may also be helpful to determine if the abusive behavior is, in fact, criminal and what legal options are available. To speak to an attorney about parent abuse, click here for a free consultation.